Every now and then life throws us a curve, often with an unexpected
lesson. A surprise. Oh yes, there are those moments when the lesson is pretty
profound—a traffic accident, a diagnosis of a bad malady, the loss of a loved
one. No. This was one of those little gems in life that inspires great
gratitude, thankfulness, and inspiration. We (my brother and I) sold our
parents' home place in 2008. It’s a small 6-acre parcel, the last of its kind in
an urban area, the remaining acres of the original 1890 homestead. The gratitude comes from knowing that the couple who bought the property have restored it in a manner that has honored our parents. The
thankfulness comes from finding buyers who purchased the property as their
residence rather than to develop it. The inspiration that I brought home was an
awakening for me, a fresher look at life and gardening. I get chocked up even as I write.
I had a rather emotional week. Because the main event of the
week involved another couple and to maintain their privacy, I won’t go into
detail about what brought us together this week. Nonetheless I had an opportunity to visit
my home place where I grew up. We sold the property in 2008 after owning it for
48 years. Here are some of the last photos I took of the place before we turned it over to new owners.
One of the first improvements dad made to the property was
to built an acre-sized pond used to store irrigation water. Using the pond as
his water source, he gardened, planted fruit trees ranging from apple trees, to
peach, pear, apricot and cherry. He had a nice collection of berries: goose
berries, strawberries, black berries and grapes, even wild plums and rhubarb. As kids we swam in the lake on summer afternoons, ice skated in the winter, fished for supper. The pond sustained a plethora of wildlife from from frogs to Canada geese, and even rare for the area nesting wood ducks.
As he aged, dad became more set in his ways. A child of Great Depression when his family nearly starved (as my mom once recounted), he
became a saver. He saved and collected everything. Everything. I guess after
watching those horrible TV reality shows, one might conclude that he was a
hoarder. I’d just like to say that he was a saver; in his mind everything he
stashed would be of some use someday. In reality every building was crammed
full of junk, precious necessary stuff: the old barn, the falling down chicken
house, two garages, even the old farmhouse, all stuffed beyond the windowsills with
stuff.
Mom passed in January 1990 and the next year dad suffered a
massive heart attack, requiring double bi-pass surgery, and he was never the
same. Forced to live oxygen (he was a heavy smoker), he retreated to his old
house and let his place fall further in disrepair. He died in 1998 three
days after I moved him closer to me and put him in nursing home. He was at the
end of his road.
For the next 10 years we held onto the old place and then
the day came when we knew that we had to sell it. The buyer had wanted that
little piece of property for nearly 3 decades. At one time while he held
discussions with dad about buying the place, he wrote a
contract, but dad refused to sell.
Today the new owners are living their dream, as the Mr. said
to me: “We live with dirt under our fingernails.” Before we sold the property, we removed all of the old
buildings except for house. Tons of stuff were hauled off, leaving a clean pallet for the new
owners.
Of course I worried silently about what they would do to the place. I heard via the grapevine some of the things they were doing. Did they leave the poppies that bloomed along the driveway year after year after year unattended, but always faithful?
What about the Wedding Vail Spirea? Did they rip out the decades old bushes?
The poppies and the spirea remain. As do the 3 pine trees that were barely 6 feet tall when we moved in in 1960 that now tower high above the garden nearly touching the clouds. The 100 year old apple trees are laden with apples The grape vines, the wild plums, the lilacs, the ancient cottonwood, the pear tree and the cherry trees. All are there groomed and pruned, tended, and loved. And cherished. And appreciated.
They have created a garden of beauty and peacefulness. In
creating their new garden, rather than stripping away the old, they have
smoothed out the rough, overgrown edges, repaired and fixed, enhanced,
improved, and added their own wonderful touch. They tore down the old house and built a new one reminiscent of the 100 year old farm house that I grew up in. They have more dreams. A lavender farm, bringing back the honey bees that dad once had, more garden, maybe some hens. Dad had hens. Maybe a couple of goats. I had horses, which brings me to the most amazing part of my visit--their horse. A modern sculpture of horse she called The Avatar. Brought another tear to my cheek.
They showed me a little stack of stuff: an old car spring, a frog eye sprinkler--dad used dozens of frog eyes to water--bits and pieces and scraps of things left behind, a little crescent wrench, an old rusty horse shoe. Anything that they find they add to the little pile that she will fashion into a totem. Now is that neat or what!
At the closing for the property, I joked about writing visitation rights into the contract and we were warmly invited to visit, but life me carried me forward and while I'd think about the home place often, I resisted visiting because I wanted them to have the time, the space, the freedom to do what they wanted with out me or my family hovering over them reminding them of how that tree came to be or what used to be over there, or how dad used to do things. No. They had to discover and create on their own.
They dredged the lake, restoring it to a new healthy ecosystem. The grapevine had told me they had drained the lake and dug it out, so I worried about the fish that dad had stocked it with, but the Mrs. proudly announced that not a fish was lost was lost during the drudging process.
One thing I noticed as we walked the property were stacks of rocks. I have seen rock staking in pictures, but not so much in gardens, so I looked up the tradition of rock stacking. I found this
web site (click) that explains the tradition. Then I understood why they stack rocks. I know that they have lived in the southwest where rock stacking is a Hopi Indian tradition that they have brought to their new garden. Stacked rocks ward of evil spirits or bring luck. I have started my first little stack by my water garden in the courtyard. I love the look of rock stacks in the garden randomly placed, a surprise along a garden path, adding a certain intrigue to the garden.
And so this week we were brought together under odd circumstances, but as the Mrs. commented as we parted ways, things happen for a reason, and we said our goodbyes knowing that we had already become friends. I left grateful that they shared their home with me, thankful that the right people have the home place, satisfied that they are good stewards of the land, and inspired to take my garden to new heights. I have started by stacking rocks.
All summer we have watched the pair of what we believe to be Swainson's hawks circle the Garden Spot. I first spotted one settling onto a nest in one of the tall trees on my way home. We can see the tree tops across the neighbor's pasture from the patio, so we began watching the pair of hawks soar above the fields looking for mice. They'd land on the corral fence, circle above, rest on the power poles for the well pumps. Often we'd see the male take food back to the nest to feed his mate incubating her eggs. They are not real timid, but cautious, so I have been able to get close enough that with my telephoto lens to get pretty decent photos of the adults.
We have this nearly dead weeping willow out by the garden and the hen house where birds like to perch, a perfect vantage point to watch young fledglings learn to fly. We can hear the parents talking to the kids as they cruse overhead. All day long we hear the hawks screaming, calling to the youngsters, teaching them how to hunt, and fledglings answering back. Now that the hay has been cut, the pasture is the perfect place for them to hunt voles and mice, and probably a garter snake or two. They seem to leave the rabbits alone and the cats, though we did have one swoop down near the patio and pick off a dove close to the ground with our Mo cat nearby taking chase thinking he could make a double header and catch both hawk and dove. Silly boy.
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